<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2886936654101087197.post6450510269981568598..comments</id><updated>2010-01-17T07:32:04.535+13:00</updated><category term='travel'/><category term='resolutions'/><category term='reviews'/><category term='Kiwi culture'/><category term='bad days'/><category term='village life'/><category term='movies'/><category term='food'/><category term='good days'/><category term='prep'/><category term='I want to know why.'/><category term='vlogs'/><category term='separation'/><category term='parenting'/><category term='book club'/><category term='blogging and social media'/><category term='marriage'/><category term='wine'/><category term='backstory'/><category term='meme me'/><category term='soapbox'/><category term='funny things Kiwis say'/><category term='my fiction'/><category term='poems'/><title type='text'>Comments on Wellington Road: I did not get permission to write this post.</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.juliryan.com/feeds/6450510269981568598/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2886936654101087197/6450510269981568598/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.juliryan.com/2009/11/i-did-not-get-permission-to-write-this.html'/><author><name>Juli</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03244459055520883039</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_OiVO7R5VbZ0/S7RQqQu7KRI/AAAAAAAAAkQ/jr2BoAq3Vmc/S220/profile1.JPG'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>10</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2886936654101087197.post-5629858682609380041</id><published>2009-11-04T16:55:37.305+13:00</published><updated>2009-11-04T16:55:37.305+13:00</updated><title type='text'>You know what I hate? (Ok, not so much *hate* as *...</title><content type='html'>You know what I hate? (Ok, not so much *hate* as *roll my eyes so far back it&amp;#39;s physically painful*) &amp;quot;MY husband &lt;i&gt;[insert miraculous walks-on-water type behaviour here]&lt;/i&gt; and is soooo attractive that &lt;i&gt;[insert amazing attractive defining behaviour here]&lt;/i&gt;&amp;quot; etc.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Maybe that I can see a lot of my husband in your examples. I often feel like venting, and it slips out a little hear and there, if you&amp;#39;re watching, but I assume that if you&amp;#39;re comfortable airing a few dirty linens, there&amp;#39;s more than enough crisp &amp;amp; clean towels in the closet ;-) I have no idea what that means. This is why I&amp;#39;m not an *actual* writer. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I need another glass of wine.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2886936654101087197/6450510269981568598/comments/default/5629858682609380041'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2886936654101087197/6450510269981568598/comments/default/5629858682609380041'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.juliryan.com/2009/11/i-did-not-get-permission-to-write-this.html?showComment=1257306937305#c5629858682609380041' title=''/><author><name>harmzie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05718439326736163120</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='16324842792431183210'/><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='28' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_YUCUxPflv0U/SsKq35Q8_OI/AAAAAAAAA-k/Jv2Za4j1eTg/S220/harmzie-sunglasses.GIF'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.juliryan.com/2009/11/i-did-not-get-permission-to-write-this.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2886936654101087197.post-6450510269981568598' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2886936654101087197/posts/default/6450510269981568598' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1333024194'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2886936654101087197.post-9041231494881128037</id><published>2009-11-04T05:02:02.233+13:00</published><updated>2009-11-04T05:02:02.233+13:00</updated><title type='text'>My husband gets a little pissy if I write about hi...</title><content type='html'>My husband gets a little pissy if I write about him in a less than charming light too but hey you wrote the truth and if you can&amp;#39;t blog about it what can you do? Nag him more in real life?  Yeah, he&amp;#39;ll love that.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2886936654101087197/6450510269981568598/comments/default/9041231494881128037'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2886936654101087197/6450510269981568598/comments/default/9041231494881128037'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.juliryan.com/2009/11/i-did-not-get-permission-to-write-this.html?showComment=1257264122233#c9041231494881128037' title=''/><author><name>Aliceson</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04810703771030465176</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='04526881712794411354'/><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='26' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_2-J0W7a4muM/SsSSJ0cy1OI/AAAAAAAACEw/Vrsy-wr3W7w/S220/Ali-blog+profile.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.juliryan.com/2009/11/i-did-not-get-permission-to-write-this.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2886936654101087197.post-6450510269981568598' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2886936654101087197/posts/default/6450510269981568598' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1389884198'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2886936654101087197.post-2153988591615402799</id><published>2009-11-04T04:25:13.624+13:00</published><updated>2009-11-04T04:25:13.624+13:00</updated><title type='text'>Oh my.  I would love to use T ee H&amp;#39;s comment o...</title><content type='html'>Oh my.  I would love to use T ee H&amp;#39;s comment on my husband, but unfortunately he reads your blog!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2886936654101087197/6450510269981568598/comments/default/2153988591615402799'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2886936654101087197/6450510269981568598/comments/default/2153988591615402799'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.juliryan.com/2009/11/i-did-not-get-permission-to-write-this.html?showComment=1257261913624#c2153988591615402799' title=''/><author><name>From AA to NZ</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11183033558555713268</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='16506384455470688725'/><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='25' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_CrWnmjSRF4s/SnUSSB1GZiI/AAAAAAAACME/gzY9ZYUpET4/S220/File0014.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.juliryan.com/2009/11/i-did-not-get-permission-to-write-this.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2886936654101087197.post-6450510269981568598' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2886936654101087197/posts/default/6450510269981568598' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-739486239'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2886936654101087197.post-6926496020543373289</id><published>2009-11-04T01:55:25.326+13:00</published><updated>2009-11-04T01:55:25.326+13:00</updated><title type='text'>What&amp;#39;s the point of having a blog if you can&amp;#...</title><content type='html'>What&amp;#39;s the point of having a blog if you can&amp;#39;t make fun of your husband???  I thought that was the official definition of a blog.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2886936654101087197/6450510269981568598/comments/default/6926496020543373289'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2886936654101087197/6450510269981568598/comments/default/6926496020543373289'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.juliryan.com/2009/11/i-did-not-get-permission-to-write-this.html?showComment=1257252925326#c6926496020543373289' title=''/><author><name>LuLu and Moxley's Mom</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07997421397509557965</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='21' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_fxiw4Y1Wwsk/SUaVl-RaD1I/AAAAAAAAAAk/TbQe-eg0mow/S220/m+(30).jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.juliryan.com/2009/11/i-did-not-get-permission-to-write-this.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2886936654101087197.post-6450510269981568598' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2886936654101087197/posts/default/6450510269981568598' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-645279783'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2886936654101087197.post-3112625887802894239</id><published>2009-11-02T19:41:47.255+13:00</published><updated>2009-11-02T19:41:47.255+13:00</updated><title type='text'>Crap, this post was not supposed to make Adam look...</title><content type='html'>Crap, this post was not supposed to make Adam look bad. He&amp;#39;s resigned to my blogging! &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I really just wanted to get at how difficult it is sometimes for writers, when we write about our real-life relationships. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And also just to poke a bit of fun at the gender divide in marriage!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2886936654101087197/6450510269981568598/comments/default/3112625887802894239'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2886936654101087197/6450510269981568598/comments/default/3112625887802894239'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.juliryan.com/2009/11/i-did-not-get-permission-to-write-this.html?showComment=1257144107255#c3112625887802894239' title=''/><author><name>Juli Ryan</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03244459055520883039</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_OiVO7R5VbZ0/SoC-2fmqK_I/AAAAAAAAAOU/z3BsAvAhWcA/S220/IMG_3567.JPG'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.juliryan.com/2009/11/i-did-not-get-permission-to-write-this.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2886936654101087197.post-6450510269981568598' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2886936654101087197/posts/default/6450510269981568598' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1493906305'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2886936654101087197.post-7743248393763232321</id><published>2009-11-02T19:36:02.865+13:00</published><updated>2009-11-02T19:36:02.865+13:00</updated><title type='text'>Oh, my, if he did what he should, you wouldn&amp;#39;t...</title><content type='html'>Oh, my, if he did what he should, you wouldn&amp;#39;t have anything to complain about! None of us are perfect, but it could be a lot worse--for both of you.  I hope he gets over it soon. And don&amp;#39;t let him stop you from blogging. It&amp;#39;s the 21st century and whining only makes him look bad.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2886936654101087197/6450510269981568598/comments/default/7743248393763232321'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2886936654101087197/6450510269981568598/comments/default/7743248393763232321'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.juliryan.com/2009/11/i-did-not-get-permission-to-write-this.html?showComment=1257143762865#c7743248393763232321' title=''/><author><name>bettyl</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03950300478215339641</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='07102219741848990160'/><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='29' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_dTM6CTqhDek/ShpE-Dj6PoI/AAAAAAAAOxE/rWr1GrhrUkI/S220/DSCF3311-1.JPG'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.juliryan.com/2009/11/i-did-not-get-permission-to-write-this.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2886936654101087197.post-6450510269981568598' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2886936654101087197/posts/default/6450510269981568598' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1481938931'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2886936654101087197.post-5614698002686057953</id><published>2009-11-02T17:43:27.300+13:00</published><updated>2009-11-02T17:43:27.300+13:00</updated><title type='text'>Jesus, just tell him to &amp;#39;suck it up princess.&amp;...</title><content type='html'>Jesus, just tell him to &amp;#39;suck it up princess.&amp;#39;  Like my wife tells me.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2886936654101087197/6450510269981568598/comments/default/5614698002686057953'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2886936654101087197/6450510269981568598/comments/default/5614698002686057953'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.juliryan.com/2009/11/i-did-not-get-permission-to-write-this.html?showComment=1257137007300#c5614698002686057953' title=''/><author><name>Tennyson ee Hemingway</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10999047427848122510</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='05150504331251359705'/><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_ein-c2-y0Hk/ScOqm72NfwI/AAAAAAAAAAM/as8Ma1-3gxo/S220/davedrum.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.juliryan.com/2009/11/i-did-not-get-permission-to-write-this.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2886936654101087197.post-6450510269981568598' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2886936654101087197/posts/default/6450510269981568598' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1425759292'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2886936654101087197.post-5933676762753592360</id><published>2009-11-02T15:37:53.310+13:00</published><updated>2009-11-02T15:37:53.310+13:00</updated><title type='text'>You are just one of about 10 female bloggers I&amp;#39...</title><content type='html'>You are just one of about 10 female bloggers I&amp;#39;ve heard talk about their &amp;quot;husband won&amp;#39;t allow it.&amp;quot; This makes me so sad. I&amp;#39;m glad I never got married.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Do what you want!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2886936654101087197/6450510269981568598/comments/default/5933676762753592360'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2886936654101087197/6450510269981568598/comments/default/5933676762753592360'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.juliryan.com/2009/11/i-did-not-get-permission-to-write-this.html?showComment=1257129473310#c5933676762753592360' title=''/><author><name>Suzy</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00361775888847203043</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='12706090965975082450'/><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='25' height='32' src='http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/2211/3786/1600/SuzybyJohn3.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.juliryan.com/2009/11/i-did-not-get-permission-to-write-this.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2886936654101087197.post-6450510269981568598' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2886936654101087197/posts/default/6450510269981568598' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-2084843777'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2886936654101087197.post-3957324842164353518</id><published>2009-11-02T13:31:34.158+13:00</published><updated>2009-11-02T13:31:34.158+13:00</updated><title type='text'>Thanks, Jacqui. It&amp;#39;s like my husband the exper...</title><content type='html'>Thanks, Jacqui. It&amp;#39;s like my husband the expert thinks I&amp;#39;m Dooce, or something. Bless him!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2886936654101087197/6450510269981568598/comments/default/3957324842164353518'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2886936654101087197/6450510269981568598/comments/default/3957324842164353518'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.juliryan.com/2009/11/i-did-not-get-permission-to-write-this.html?showComment=1257121894158#c3957324842164353518' title=''/><author><name>Juli Ryan</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03244459055520883039</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_OiVO7R5VbZ0/SoC-2fmqK_I/AAAAAAAAAOU/z3BsAvAhWcA/S220/IMG_3567.JPG'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.juliryan.com/2009/11/i-did-not-get-permission-to-write-this.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2886936654101087197.post-6450510269981568598' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2886936654101087197/posts/default/6450510269981568598' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1493906305'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2886936654101087197.post-7236613025748709228</id><published>2009-11-02T13:12:09.587+13:00</published><updated>2009-11-02T13:12:09.587+13:00</updated><title type='text'>DIY is totally open to mocking - just look at thos...</title><content type='html'>DIY is totally open to mocking - just look at those tv shows dedicated to making the husband look totally stupid and incompetent. Your hubby should be grateful he didn&amp;#39;t end up on tv, exposed to the nation. Mine insists on calling in the experts for every little thing, frankly I&amp;#39;m surprised I&amp;#39;m allowed to change lightbulbs. I&amp;#39;d be all DIY if I could.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Nagging is just a term guys like to trot out when it&amp;#39;s useful. If they&amp;#39;d ever seen a true nagging situation and a truly hen-pecked husband they&amp;#39;d be meek and humble in the face of the occasional wifely loving reminder.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2886936654101087197/6450510269981568598/comments/default/7236613025748709228'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2886936654101087197/6450510269981568598/comments/default/7236613025748709228'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.juliryan.com/2009/11/i-did-not-get-permission-to-write-this.html?showComment=1257120729587#c7236613025748709228' title=''/><author><name>Jacqui</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01192730590127098720</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='12636483121843581958'/><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='30' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_pgAo2CIsfQ0/SS0X58CPOZI/AAAAAAAAAAM/aIOllAMha4U/S220/parsleysmall.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.juliryan.com/2009/11/i-did-not-get-permission-to-write-this.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2886936654101087197.post-6450510269981568598' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2886936654101087197/posts/default/6450510269981568598' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-590512805'/></entry></feed>
